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Hand-Off Tower

Parent stacks the first block, then hands the next to the toddler, gradually handing off more until the child stacks alone.

Cartoon illustration of a parent and child at home doing Hand-Off Tower.
  • Age12 months to 2 years
  • Time5 to 15 minutes
  • EnergyCalm
  • CostFree
  • WhereIndoors
  • PrepNone

You and your toddler build a small tower together, with you handing over more of the job as they get the hang of placing blocks one on top of another.

How to do it

  1. Sit facing your toddler with a small pile of stackable blocks between you.
  2. Place the first block yourself and say what you are doing in a simple way.
  3. Hand the next block to your toddler and guide their hand onto the tower if needed.
  4. Step back a little each round, handing over the block but letting them place it alone.
  5. Cheer the tower whether it stands or topples, then rebuild together as often as they like.

What you need

  • Blocks

Signs it is working

Your toddler takes the block you hand over and moves it toward the tower. They release a block onto the stack, even roughly. They reach for another block or clap when the tower falls

If it is not quite clicking

The tower keeps toppling and frustrates them: Use larger, lighter blocks or keep it to two blocks high. They only want to knock it down: Let them; the crash is part of the fun and the learning. They lose interest in placing: Go back to handing over and guiding their hand for a round

Make it yours

Younger (12-15 months): Stack only two blocks and celebrate each one. Older (2-3 years): Hand over the whole pile and let them build freely, then count the blocks together. Siblings: An older child can be the block-hander for the toddler

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