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Memory Match

Players flip pairs of cards to find matches, remembering positions, a timeless memory game.

Cartoon illustration of a parent and child at home doing Memory Match.
  • Age3 to 6 years
  • Time5 to 15 minutes
  • EnergyCalm
  • CostFree
  • WhereIndoors
  • PrepNone

A turn-taking game where matching cards are laid face down and players flip two at a time, trying to remember where each picture is and find pairs. Practises remembering where things are.

How to do it

  1. Lay out matching pairs of cards face down in a grid; start with a small number of pairs for younger players.
  2. On each turn, a player flips two cards face up for everyone to see.
  3. If the two cards match, that player keeps the pair and goes again; if not, they turn them back face down in the same spots.
  4. Players try to remember where cards are so they can make matches on later turns.
  5. Play until all pairs are found, then count how many each player collected.

What you need

  • Cards
  • Flat surface

Signs it is working

Your child remembers the position of a card they saw earlier and uses it to make a match. They take turns and turn non-matches back face down. They stay engaged to the end of the grid.

If it is not quite clicking

Your child cannot remember any positions: Start with just four to six pairs and build up. They get frustrated by mismatches: Play cooperatively where you both try to clear the grid together rather than compete. A young child peeks or wants every card: Let them flip freely for a few rounds before adding the matching rule.

Make it yours

Younger, 3-4 years: Use only four to six pairs with clear, distinct pictures. Older, 5-6 years: Use more pairs, or add a rule that you name the picture aloud when you flip it. Siblings: Mixed ages can play together if the younger one uses fewer pairs or plays on a team with an adult.

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